Saturday, October 9, 2010

THE BEGINNING OR THE END?

So, your crit group tells you the story rocks! Now what?
You attend a conference and meet an interested agent. Now what?
You send a proposal to the agent, wait a couple months.
He/she wants you for a client. Now what?
Numerous publishers say no, a couple “might” be interested.
One finally asks for a full read. Now what?

They like it! A contract is signed.
Now what?


Are you facing the end of a long journey or are you merely at the beginning?
If you think you’ve arrived—you’re crazy. This is just the start.

Now, you have to sell yourself, your story, a reason for someone to lay out a lot of money to read all that work you’ve devoted the last 2, 3, 10 or 15 years to.

We so often think, “if only” this happens or that happens,
THEN I’ll be happy. THEN I’ll have what I want.

Don’t look now, but your happiness doesn’t rest in being published or validated in any other way. Your happiness is there every day of your life to have for the grabbing. BE content with the life you have and view the extras as just that. Or like my mom used to say, the frosting on the cake. But don’t miss out on the yummy cake while you’re waiting for the frosting.

Life is too precious to overlook any one day.

Are you enjoying your writing journey even if no publisher has signed you?
Do you write because you have to?

If you write because you have to as surely as you have to breathe, then you are writer, published or not!

Have a happy one!

3 comments:

  1. Linda...

    Well said! It seems that as we gain each new "happiness," another one comes along to tease us into thinking we'll be perfectly content as soon as it happens. Thanks for showing me I need to be content with the life God has given me whether or not my book gets published.

    Blessings,
    Deb

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  2. This is an excellent post, Linda!!! Very true what you said about happiness.

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  3. Finally, I'm getting notifications on your posts! You are totally right, Linda. Writing in itself is amazingly rewarding.

    Of course I would love to get published, but I try to not focus so much on that, but on the daily blessings in my life. Thank you so much for the reminder!

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